There's nothing subtle about domestic violence. And it won't ever go away unless women stop pretending what is, ain't so. I wonder ... when is enough, enough?!

What I’ve come to discover in my few years of working with women, is that all the women were taught how to pretend. Manipulate their inner cues to be able to tolerate the outer ‘reality’. Manipulate, too, the outer circumstances so people think their lives are “perfect”. Yet our inner world is in total and utter turmoil. So is that of our children.

Wise words by a wise woman: "I'm not settling for half of anything!"

I can never be more intimate with another than I have given myself permission to be with myself. In that, I must be in willing to be with my own disagreements inside myself to the point where I integrate the double binds and anchors and lies. I must choose to remain comfortable in my discomfort of not-knowing and uncertainty yet give myself permission to BE in all that IS. I must create enough space inside myself to hold all the paradoxical truths as equally real in order to integrate them. I must be willing to take sacred responsibility, inside myself, about my contribution to the external reality I am living.

Curiosity, on the other hand, is an open ended state of being. “I don’t know” is a powerful, legitimate state of being that invites the unknown to become known. It is the state of creativity, of expansion, of evolution. It demands that we surrender that which we think we know in order to discover what it is that we yet don’t know.It is in the yet unknown that potential and possibility live.It is in the yet unknown that resourcefulness emerges from.

Decloaking and Living Authentically 1. introduces you to a reliable and predictable process you can engage today to begin transforming the quality of your life. 2. Decloaking is the stepping stone to a paradigm shift from being externally referenced to being internally referenced. THAT is the single, most massive mindset shift you can make that will free you from the confines of cultural conditioning internalized through your upbringing. Make friends with your mind, make peace with your life.

Today on Sparking the Sacred podcast, we are in conversation with Jennifer Hatt.Jennifer is a CODE Model Coach™, an author and a publicist. As a fellow colleague and an enthusiast of the WEL-Systems® original experiences, Jennifer has agreed to be my guest in this episode where we explore what it was like for her to engage the Whispers from Within™ experience with me.

What does it take to create sustainably that which light you up?"Creation from Crone energy feels very different, very certain, very unshakable. It's the ability to see the much larger picture, the greater context within which my creations unfold, and trusting that because they are creations of deep RIG (respect, integrity and generosity of Spirit) and joy, they are sustainable. They are creations that make my heart skip a beat when I think about having created them. That another looks at it and does not see what I see is entirely irrelevant to me... " 

So, this mother's best advice to my three year old? Be yourself, and tell the truth! Notice where you deny, defend, dismiss, avoid. Notice where you think you know best. Notice where you hook yourself to an illusion to try and sustain the status quo of your life. Notice when that's no longer serving you. Notice your unfolding mindfully in every breath, and choose every choice consciously. Seek the higher order truth that's beckoning to be revealed to you, and you will find it ... over and over and over ... 

The only thing you can trust without question is that your body will never lie to you.