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Your Imagination is the Key.
Discover why imagination isn’t wishful thinking—it’s the foundation for becoming who you’re here to be.
Most People Would Rather Die Than Change
Most people want things to change, but few are willing to do what it actually takes. This post explores what stands in the way of a meaningful life—and what it really looks like to choose one. Not in theory, but in practice. Every single day.
Intensity, embodied, is the name of the game.
But in that difference, people noticed something powerful about themselves – “You can’t give what you haven’t got” isn’t a mantra. It’s a fundamental and foundational truth.
Waiting Is Costing You.
Women are taught to settle, then stew. And underneath all that? There’s an unexplainable and insatiable hunger. Hunger for Life! Hunger for depth. Hunger for depth. Desire. Pleasure. Joy. A hunger for more… the kind of more that would compel them to finally feel free. Not because they obeyed, but because they dared.
Darkness is my sacred gift: A reclamation of the self that never left
Addiction numbed the noise—but darkness taught me how to listen.
“Walking into the fire”: The Gift of Being Called Out (With Love, But No Bullshit)
At some point within the first 24 hours, something cracked.
It wasn’t a breakdown.
It wasn’t a single moment.
It was more like a slow unraveling—
A loosening of the grip I didn’t even know I had.
And when the realization hit, it hit hard:
I was still apologizing for existing.
A Compassionate and Provocative Approach to Self-Discovery
Are you seeking a comprehensive and holistic approach to self-discovery? I guide women to reclaim the quality of their mind, body, and spirit, creating meaningful, intentional lives by helping them discover their inner potential. Through WEL-Systems-based experiences, explore a transformative journey that is not found anywhere else.
“That is the most powerful gift I have ever received.”
I have done a lot of deep inner work, but nothing—nothing—has ever cracked me open quite like Decloaking with Stela. This wasn’t just another coaching session, self-help program, or course—it was a soul-level activation.
The power of an intentional pause & reset.
Discover the power of the intentional pause in helping you create your meaningful life.
The path of Truth is not for everyone.
The best things in life come to us when we least expect them, yet are fully open to receive. Do you know what I mean?
Some of my most cherished pieces…
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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives
“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.”
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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son
“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”
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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity
“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”
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How this process changes lives
“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”